If you care, you take the time.
If you're gonna wing it, you don't really want it.
I think this works in many situations.
How I meant it was that I've gone on "dates" where we would be like
"should we see movie?" "ok"
But, this time it was "I wanted to show you a nature preserve, it's like my favorite spot ever." And he knew that I would like this because he took an interest in who I am. It wasn't a generic date. "Since you're an environmental major, I figured you liked outdoorsy stuff." And boy was he right. I probably wouldn't have thought to do those types of things but it was the most fun I probably ever had.
I think next weekend, if we hang out again, I'm going to take him to the place in Southampton where you can feed birds out of your hand. He likes similar things, I believe.
But after typing the first part, I realize this can be directed to a lot of things. In which I was having an inner fight with myself. But I just have to remember that.
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